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How the service works, the decisions behind it, and the problems it addresses.

31 articles

ReflectionJune 23, 2026

Far From Home, Still Noticed

What the Greek expat groups showed me about distance, and the people only you would think to tell.

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GuideJune 22, 2026

When Someone Can No Longer Tell People Themselves, Who Does?

A gap that funeral directors see more clearly than anyone, the reasons it persists, and a no-cost role that lets your firm help families close it.

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NewsJune 16, 2026

Y.O.D.O. At The University Of Southampton Staff Benefits Fair

Y.O.D.O. attended the University of Southampton Staff Benefits Fair for the first time. Here is what happened when we chose conversation over data capture.

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WellbeingJune 8, 2026

Why I Signed Up For The Weymouth Ironman 70.3

I am racing the Weymouth Ironman 70.3 to put a quiet idea into the world. Live on purpose. Notice the people around you when they go silent. Give your family a simple, structured way to find peace of mind, long before anything is wrong.

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GuideJune 4, 2026

Y.O.D.O. vs Apple Digital Legacy And Google Inactive Account Manager

Apple and Google both offer ways to hand over an account after someone dies. They are useful, and they are limited. Here is a plain comparison of what each one actually does, and where Y.O.D.O. fits.

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GuideJune 2, 2026

Y.O.D.O. vs A Letter Of Wishes: What Each One Is For

A letter of wishes sits beside your will. A Y.O.D.O. message sits beside both, and reaches a specific person at the right moment. Here is how the two compare, and why most people will want both.

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GuideMay 12, 2026

Letter Of Wishes Template UK: What To Include And Where Y.O.D.O. Fits

A letter of wishes sits alongside your will to explain the human detail your will cannot carry. Here is a plain-English template for the UK, and how a modern digital equivalent like Y.O.D.O. complements it.

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GuideMay 8, 2026

What To Do When Someone Dies In The UK: A Calm Checklist

A short, practical guide to the first days after a death in the UK, the official services that exist to help, and how a service like Y.O.D.O. lifts some of the personal weight from the family.

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GuideMay 5, 2026

How To Check In On An Elderly Parent, Without It Feeling Like Surveillance

A short guide to the everyday rhythms that keep an elderly parent gently noticed, and how Y.O.D.O. makes that noticing structural rather than accidental.

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GuideMay 1, 2026

Digital Legacy Planning In The UK: Where To Start

A short, practical map of digital legacy planning in the UK: what your will covers, what it does not, and how to organise the personal handover so the people you love are not left guessing.

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NewsApril 20, 2026

Y.O.D.O. Launches 15 May. Join the Waiting List, Save 15% for Life.

After months of careful work with our focus groups, Y.O.D.O. opens to the public on 15 May. Everyone who joins the waiting list before launch keeps 15% off their subscription, for as long as they stay with us.

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GuideJanuary 6, 2026

How Check-Ins Work in Y.O.D.O.

You choose the rhythm. A simple tap confirms you are present. If you miss one, your Delegates may be contacted. Here is what happens at each step.

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GuideDecember 30, 2025

Creating Your First Message in Y.O.D.O.

A step-by-step guide to writing, recording, or uploading your first message. Covers format options, choosing Recipients, and what to say when you are not sure where to start.

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GuideDecember 22, 2025

How to Choose Your Delegates

Who to ask, how many to choose, and why variety matters. A practical guide to selecting the people you trust to be contacted if a check-in is missed.

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GuideDecember 17, 2025

Getting Started with Y.O.D.O.

Five steps to set up your account: creating an account, choosing your check-in rhythm, inviting Delegates, writing your first message, and what happens next.

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FamilyDecember 11, 2025

Y.O.D.O. for Parents and Adult Children

How check-ins work across generations. A parent living independently can be noticed without feeling monitored, and adult children can worry less about the gaps between calls.

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WellbeingDecember 3, 2025

Living Alone, Not Unnoticed

For people who live independently and those who care about them. How regular check-ins provide reassurance without changing anyone's routine.

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LegacyNovember 25, 2025

Why Messages Are Sealed Until They Are Needed

Messages in Y.O.D.O. are not delivered automatically. They remain sealed until a passing has been verified. This article explains why timing is central to how the service works.

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ConnectionNovember 18, 2025

Using Y.O.D.O. with Friends, Not Just Family

Delegates do not have to be relatives. Friends who know your routine and notice when something feels off can be part of your circle too.

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WellbeingNovember 12, 2025

Reassurance Before Anything Happens

Y.O.D.O. is not a crisis service. It is designed to reduce everyday worry by making sure that if a check-in is missed, the right people are informed.

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LegacyNovember 5, 2025

Beyond Wills and Passwords

A will handles possessions. A password list handles accounts. Y.O.D.O. handles something different: private words delivered to the right people at the right time.

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LegacyOctober 30, 2025

The Things We Mean to Say But Do Not

Most regrets are not about what we did, but what we left unsaid. Y.O.D.O. gives people a way to store those words privately and have them delivered only when the time is right.

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TechnologyOctober 24, 2025

How Y.O.D.O. Uses Technology Without Losing the Human Element

Check-ins, security, and verification are technical features. But in Y.O.D.O., they serve a specific purpose: making sure Delegates, not just algorithms, are part of every important step.

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ConnectionOctober 20, 2025

How Y.O.D.O. Works Across Distance

A missed check-in in London can notify a sibling in Athens. Y.O.D.O. is designed for families and friends who live in different cities or countries and want to stay connected.

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WellbeingOctober 14, 2025

Y.O.D.O. Is Not Just About What Happens After

Check-ins are a daily feature, not an end-of-life feature. This article explains how Y.O.D.O. supports everyday connection long before messages are ever delivered.

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SecurityOctober 9, 2025

How Y.O.D.O. Protects Your Messages

Messages are protected from the moment you create them. Delegates cannot access them. Delivery requires verification. This article explains the layers of protection and why they exist.

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GuideOctober 6, 2025

What Delegates Do and Why They Matter

Delegates are trusted contacts who may be notified if a check-in is missed. They do not access your account or messages. This article explains the role, its limits, and how circles work.

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LegacyOctober 2, 2025

Why Preparing Now Is Not About Expecting the Worst

Writing a message or choosing Delegates is not morbid. It is practical. This article explains what it means to prepare, what Y.O.D.O. stores, and why people find it reassuring.

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GuideSeptember 19, 2025

How Message Delivery Works in Y.O.D.O.

Messages are sealed until a passing is verified by Delegates and supported by documentation. This guide explains the delivery process, what triggers it, and how privacy is maintained.

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WellbeingSeptember 17, 2025

What Check-Ins Are and Why They Exist

A check-in is a scheduled prompt that confirms you are present. If you respond, nothing happens. If you do not, your Delegates may be contacted. This article explains the thinking behind it.

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AboutSeptember 15, 2025

What Y.O.D.O. Actually Solves

Y.O.D.O. is often described as a messaging app. It is not. It addresses eight specific problems: from the worry of being unnoticed to the difficulty of having conversations about death.

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