For living with a chronic or terminal condition
Living with it, on your terms.
A check-in cadence you can adjust. A Care Pause for hospital weeks. Quick check-ins on the days you want to send one. And, when the time comes, sealed messages waiting for the people you chose. The order of those things is yours.
Free 14-day trial, no card required. Now live in the UK and EEA.
The worry
There is so much to think about. Conversations you want to have, messages you do not yet feel ready to write, instructions you would rather not hand over too early. Many people put it off until it is too late. Y.O.D.O. lets you take it one private message at a time, on your own schedule, without anyone seeing a thing until the right moment.
How Y.O.D.O. helps
Write at your own pace
Text, voice, video, or files. Save drafts. Edit any time. Nothing is shared until a passing is verified.
Decide who gets what
Each Recipient sees only the messages you wrote for them. Friends, family, your solicitor, your funeral director, each on their own list.
A trusted person can act for you, if needed
Your Delegates can request a Care Pause when you are in hospital or hospice, so Check-ins do not bother you while you focus on what matters.
Ways to leave a message
In the format that feels right for you
Different people prefer different formats. You can mix and match across Recipients, and change your mind at any time before delivery.
Voice messages
Many people find it easier to speak than to write. A short voice note can become the most precious thing left behind.
Written notes
Edit at your own pace. Drafts stay sealed until you are ready.
Video messages
When seeing your face matters. Entirely optional.
File attachments
Practical documents, photographs, or scans for specific people.
“I have things I want certain people to read if I am gone. Not a will, just personal things. There is nowhere safe to leave them.”
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Free 14-day trial, no card required. Now live in the UK and EEA.