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Passive, waiting to be told
A Delegate must remember the account exists, sign in, and start the process. In grief, that often never happens. The vault stays sealed and the words stay unread.
Never go unnoticed.
Check in. Live on.
One tap says you are OK. If you ever go quiet, the people you trust are gently notified. And the words you most want to leave behind stay sealed for the people you chose, until the moment they are needed.
Free 14-day trial, no card required. Now live in the UK and EEA.
The Problem
Who would notice
if you went quiet?
We notice the people who post, reply, show up. The quiet ones slip by. A missed call becomes a busy week, a busy week becomes a month, and nobody quite knows when to worry.
Y.O.D.O. makes noticing intentional. One tap says you are OK. If you ever go quiet, the people you trust are gently told. And the words you most want to leave behind stay sealed for the people you chose, ready only if the day ever comes.
Who Y.O.D.O. Is For
For people who care.
Y.O.D.O. fits people who live alone, families and partners who are far apart, professionals who look after others, and many more. Pick the page closest to your situation to see how it works for you.
How it works
Quiet by design.
Set up takes minutes. Living with it takes seconds. The people you trust will know if you ever go quiet, and the words you leave behind reach who they were meant for.
01
Set your rhythm.
Choose how often you want to check in. Weekly, fortnightly, or on a schedule that fits your life.
02
One tap to say you are OK.
When your check-in arrives, log in and tap once. Done in seconds, on your phone or laptop.
03
Your circle stays connected.
The people you trust are part of your plan. They can request a Care Pause on your behalf and are there if you need support.
What Sets Y.O.D.O. Apart
Two quiet decisions that
change the outcome.
Most legacy services depend on grieving families to remember an account, log in, and start a process. Y.O.D.O. is built so noticing happens on its own, and so the right professionals can quietly carry the weight.
Pillar One: The Check-In Trigger
Y.O.D.O.
Active, prompted by silence
Scheduled check-ins create a quiet signal of life. If that signal goes missing, Y.O.D.O. reaches out to your Delegates and prompts them to act, rather than waiting for them to notice on their own.
Pillar Two: Special Delegates
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All on the family
Loved ones are expected to make the difficult calls themselves, to a solicitor, a notary, an employer, a funeral director, during the hardest week of their lives.
Y.O.D.O.
Professionals carry the weight
You can nominate Special Delegates, the professionals you trust, such as a solicitor, notary, accountant, employer, funeral director, banker, or a befriending charity. Each receives a single neutral notice after a verified passing, so family members are not left to make those calls alone.
The Account Holder can pause or cancel at any point. Verification, the 72-hour dispute window, and a death certificate are still required before any message is released.
Living on purpose, for me, comes down to two quiet acts. Noticing the people we love before life gets in the way, and leaving them the words we most want them to keep.
Thea Kouraki, founder and CEO.
Encrypted at rest. Never read by us. Released only after a passing has been verified.UK and EEA hosted. Built to UK GDPR standards. ICO-registered.
Honest pricing. No hidden costs.
From £3.99 a month. Less than a coffee.
Pick the size of circle that fits. 14-day free trial, no card required. Upgrade, downgrade, or cancel any time.
Standard
For a close, trusted circle
£3.99/month
- Monthly check-ins
- Up to 3 Delegates
- Up to 10 Recipients
- Up to 1 Special Delegate
Recommended
Premium
For those who need more reach
£6.99/month
- Customisable check-in frequency
- Up to 10 Delegates
- Up to 50 Recipients
- Up to 5 Special Delegates
Supreme
For the widest peace of mind
£9.99/month
- Customisable check-in frequency
- Up to 20 Delegates
- Up to 200 Recipients
- Up to 8 Special Delegates
Some things should not be left to chance.
Y.O.D.O. is now live. Start your free trial today.